Just this week, someone told me they feel guilty for being away from their email for more than 10 minutes during the workday. When I asked what she considered her "workday", she paused for a minute and said "well, any time I'm awake, really." I hope you're having the same reaction I had, which was:… Continue reading Impact over Activity
Making Working From Home … Work
I've been coaching friends and family on how to make working from home actually work. I recently hosted a 20-minute tune-up: a very short webinar with the top 10 advice snippets I've given out frequently. There isn't an end in sight to working remotely for most of us. Even if there were a clear end-date,… Continue reading Making Working From Home … Work
Book Recommendation: Burnout
The book I recommended most in 2020 was Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, by Emily Nagoski, PhD and Amelia Nagoski. To start, the sisters Nagoski break down exactly what burnout is. Hint: it's not just needing a nap or wanting a glass of wine. They go further in explaining in why women… Continue reading Book Recommendation: Burnout
Pickles, Santa Moments and Sticking it to 2020
"2020 Strikes Again" is not a good email. That's the email last week that let me know that a friend, living overseas, is having a rougher-than-the-rest-of-us time. I wanted to DO something to help her. If she were closer, this would be when I'd make her dinner and drop it off on the doorstep. Instead,… Continue reading Pickles, Santa Moments and Sticking it to 2020
My 2020 Struggles will be my 2021 Strengths
The 12 Days of Christmas are my favorite time of year. Those last six days of the old year and first six days of the new year always feel like the ideal balance of reflection and intention. In past years, I've taken myself off to a coffee shop with my planner in hand, to evaluate… Continue reading My 2020 Struggles will be my 2021 Strengths
The ZOOM where it happens…
Over the past the past 5 months, I've been keeping notes on how work is getting done: at home, in split shifts, in conference rooms with masks, with scheduled yet informal check-ins, with earlier start and end-times to the work day... I am energized by thinking about how work works, and how to make it… Continue reading The ZOOM where it happens…
Questions of the Week
I celebrate each hump day with "Wendy's Wednesday Challenge" questions. I text family and close friends silly what-if questions as way to say hello and check-in without having to ask the dreaded "how are you doing?" I've learned a bit from these QOTW texts: some friends think a solar-powered tiny house is "one thing" they… Continue reading Questions of the Week
My June Swoon
I've turned to this bit of Glennon Doyle's writing from Love Warrior almost every day during the last 6 weeks: Crisis means to sift. Let it all fall away and you'll be left with what matters. Every day, I take stock and consider what is essential right now. What feels essential every day changes. June… Continue reading My June Swoon
Chelsea’s Three Lists
My friend, Chelsea, is keeping lists on her fridge throughout this crazy, shifting crisis to reminder her what she is looking forward to and what she wants to take away from her family's experience. It's such a smart idea that I'm a) doing it myself, b) adding a third list and c) sharing the idea… Continue reading Chelsea’s Three Lists
Celebrating the smaller wins: Merit Badges
Two things happened in the last week that resulted in a gift for you: A wise friend wrote an article this week on "How to Make the Most Uncomfortable Comfortable." One of her tips is to celebrate small wins. I am 110% onboard with that recommendation! A virtual happy hour with friends included a discussion… Continue reading Celebrating the smaller wins: Merit Badges
